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崩老头

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Chinese

Pronunciation

  • Pinyin: bēng lǎo tóu
  • Tones: 1st–3rd–2nd

Etymology

Compound of:

  • (bēng) – "to collapse; to burst; to break down"
  • (lǎo) – "old; elderly"
  • (tóu) – "head; person; end"

Literally "collapsing the old man" or "making the old man break down." Coined as internet slang on 抖音 (Dǒuyīn) around 2024.

Noun

崩老头 (bēng lǎo tóu)

  1. (Chinese internet slang) A viral social media trend originating on 抖音 (Dǒuyīn) circa 2024, in which young rural women known as 精神小妹 (jīngshén xiǎomèi, "spirited sisters") solicit escalating monetary gifts from older or middle-aged men via social media under the guise of companionship, culminating in blocking the target once he can no longer provide — thereby "collapsing" him.
  2. (by extension) Any act of gradually extracting money or gifts from an emotionally vulnerable man online through feigned affection or friendship.

Usage notes

  • The "old man" (老头) in this term is metaphorical and does not refer exclusively to elderly men. Targets are categorized by generation into a so-called "old man ecosystem":
    • 青档 (qīng dàng) – men born in the 2000s ("adolescent uncs")
    • 中档 (zhōng dàng) – men born in the 1990s ("middle uncs")
    • 老档 (lǎo dàng) – men born in the 1980s ("uncs")
    • 至尊档 / 神古档 – men born in the 1960s–1970s ("supreme" or "divine ancient uncs")
  • The trend is generally considered legal in China, operating in a grey area of transactional emotional labour rather than fraud.
  • Often associated with the 精神小妹 (jīngshén xiǎomèi) rural e-girl subculture on 抖音 and 快手 (Kuǎishǒu).

Verb

崩老头 (bēng lǎo tóu)

  1. (Chinese internet slang, transitive) To perform the act of "old man collapsing" upon a target; to solicit and drain a man of money through escalating requests before blocking him.
    她同时在崩十六个老头。
    Tā tóngshí zài bēng shíliù gè lǎo tóu.
    "She was collapsing sixteen old men simultaneously."
  • 精神小妹 (jīngshén xiǎomèi) – "spirited sister"; the female archetype associated with this trend
  • 精神小伙 (jīngshén xiǎohuǒ) – "spirited brother"; the male rural delinquent counterpart stereotype
  • 红包 (hóngbāo) – digital monetary gift, a common vehicle for payments in this trend

See also